An escort service

How to Use an Escort Service

If you have never used an Escort Agency before, you probably have a few questions and concerns about what exactly you're going to deal with. With your well-being in mind, relax, we have put together this brief guide for you.

What is an escort service

An escort service exists to provide one of two things. Companionship is the first. You're a stranger in a new town, you're in a hotel. Perhaps you want someone to talk to. Or perhaps you desire a dining companion? No problem. Escorts Agencies supply women who will happily provide these services. You don't have to go anywhere, you don't have to pick anyone up. You're in your own environment, comfortable in your own space.

Of course, the second thing an escort service provides is a woman to have sex with, and that's probably why you're calling in the first place. Keep in mind, that in most countries of the world, with a few notable exceptions such as the Netherlands, an Escort Service can, to stay within the bounds of the law, provide only one thing, companionship.

What more you get out of hiring an escort is between the two of you, and determined discreetly and behind closed doors.

Does the escort like doing this work?

Many societies deem sex in exchange for money both immoral and repugnant. They project these attitudes upon those engaged in the profession, and make the assumption that those working in the profession feel similar.

Many people do things they don't feel like doing in 'normal' jobs all day long, don't they? The fact is, no one questions other types of work. But chances are, your escort enjoys her work. Hiring an escort is the same as hiring any other professional who provides a service, a doctor, a lawyer, a therapist, a mechanic---you pay them money and they provide their service.

Sex work is one of the best gigs out there. It's a high impact, direct service job and there's a need for it. Think of escort work similar to being an athlete. Escorts, like most people engaged in a profession, do it because they get paid for it. Many people enjoy their job as well. It's no different for an escort. They enjoy meeting new people. Yes, and many even do it because they enjoy sex.

Taking the first step-What to expect when you call

Let's assume you have looked at the girls available on this very site, and found someone to your liking. That's part of the fun of it. Women with different physical attributes, who might not be available to you in real life are here, ready and waiting. You can select the woman you desire.

The next step is picking up the telephone and ringing the Escort Service. They'll ask you who you're interested in seeing, and when. If you have additional questions about the lady, something not answered in the discreet information provided in her profile, by all means ask. Now is the time. Don't be shy. The operator has heard it all. You may have questions about how many times you can have orgasms, or whether the girl will kiss. He or she may not know the answer, it's simply not possible to be aware of all services provided by a large listing of ladies. One thing you can count on is that they'll do their very best to provide what you seek. It's good business to please the customer, and an Escort Service is a people business. The next thing they'll do is check to see if the particular lady is working at that time, and if she is, when she is available. If she is available, but at a later time than what you desire, they'll offer that. They might also ask you how the escort should be dressed. The escort will be discreet in what atttire she arrives in, but perhaps you have a fancy for elegant attire, business wear, or even a school-girl look? If the escort you're after is not working, or unavailable at a time that is convenient for you, they'll offer an alternative. This is a good time to remind the Operator of the particular type of woman and services you're seeking, just in case this got lost along the way. Confirm the amount of time you wish to book the escort, and confirm the cost. With reputable agencies, this cost is the complete cost, and nothing more is expected. Of course if you're feeling particularly satisfied afterwards, a tip to the escort would be appreciated as well.

Preparing for when she arrives

Get rid of the sand paper growing on your face. Shave before she arrives. It's a rare women who enjoys the feel of sandpaper against their face or other delicate bits. This increases exponentially for an escort, who may (surprise!), be seeing additional clients that evening. Take a shower, too. Every woman likes a fresh and clean smelling male.

The escort arrives, now what?

"$ Arrangements"

If you're a guest in a new city, and unfamiliar with directions, learning your whereabouts is important. Provide the complete address of where you are located, and good directions on how to get there. Most often the escort will arrive by taxi, or perhaps even by private driver. They'll most likely know where you are staying, but to avoid confusion, provide good directions. If you're at a hotel, suggest your escort ring you from the lobby. If security is an issue at whatever particular hotel you're staying at, it would not be unappreciated to meet and greet your escort in the lobby.

The exchange of money is best conducted by placing the agreed upon amount in a visible location, such as a bedside table. Providing payment within an envelope shows a bit of class as well. Never put the escort in the position of having to ask for payment. As the woman splits the amount received with the agency at some fixed percentage, tipping, especially a little up front, may get you extra mileage during the encounter---a little extra attention, a massage at the end, her washing you up before and after, etc. Tipping at the end is also acceptable, consider it a helpful investment in your future encounters with that girl, if those are your intentions. A tip is also recommended if you had a good time with the girl.

After she has been paid, she will usually call the agency to tell them everything is fine. The clock's now running.

Getting Comfortable

Now you have a full hour with the lady. Your time can be used for whatever you want to do, as long as she agrees to do it. Whatever happens behind closed doors by 2 consenting adults is strictly their business. Escorts are women, and they have the same instincts too. They are not robots, either. They will worry about the same things as other women. There's pressure on them also. Think they're a sex expert? Not really. They may have wider experience, and experience it more often, but ungracious clients expect a lot in bed from them. No one is at their best feeling pressured. A bit of chit-chat is in order now. Most likely she will lead the way. You might offer her a drink. Allow her to get comfortable with you, and you with her. Don't bark at her to get undressed and get into bed. She's a woman remember? This does not turn any woman on, and if you want to have the most enjoyable time with your escort, treat her like a woman likes to be treated.

After a few minutes of breaking-the-ice, she'll suggest you both get comfortable. And she will.

On the bed, everything is with a condom. Some girls may (at their suggestion or your request) offer BBBJ (Oral without condom) for an extra price. The usual variety of sexual positions are welcomed. Decide what you like, or ask the girl to show you something new.

If things do get passionate, biting to the point of leaving marks is a no-no. No woman likes to wear sweaters and scarfs to hide the marks for the next few weeks. Specific requests, such as asking her to be on top are fine. Lying there while she does all the work is not.

If you want her to use her mouth on you, don't push her head down. Does any woman like that? Of course they don't. Use yours on her, first. Escorts, like all women, need to be warmed up first. She's not a machine. When she reciprocates, don't grab her head. Caress her gently, appreciate her, participate. All women like that.

If you're really enjoying your time with the lady, it's often possible to extend the hour by one hour increments. Let your escort know this as early as you can, she'll have to check in with the agency and find out if she has additional time available to spend with you, i.e., she's not already booked with another client.


She might've supplied the condom, she might very well have removed it and washed you up upon its removal. But it's up to you to dispose of it. Your escort will also want to freshen up. Offer your bathroom to her, and do make sure ahead of time, it's in an orderly and clean condition. You may be heading to bed, but your escort may have additional bookings, and she'll want to be as fresh and clean as when she arrived to see you. Fresh towels are nice.

When the festivities are complete, i.e., your time is up, she will call the agency again, arrange her transport, etc.

Things didn't work out?

(She wasn't your type)

In the event the both of you didn't "click", be gracious about it. It does take two to tango, and as we said earlier, your Escort is not a robot, she's a woman with reaL feelings and emotions. There are plenty more fish in the sea. That's the beauty of an escort service, if you want something else, there are plenty more fish in the sea.

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